Richard Deshong
Mike, does it feel good to get your dislike of my comments off your chest? I’m very proud of you. I could almost totally understand your ramblings and I did appreciate your decision to not utilize all caps. We actually make a good team. You’re willing to blurt out your beliefs without the benefit of research, and I love doing research to show you the errors of your beliefs. What a team. Next to Jim, you’re my favorite person on the forum with whom to debate.
In case you are patiently waiting near one of your electronic devices anxious to get my apology, it ain’t acomin.
As for the basic premise that Critical Race Theory is founded on, perhaps you would rather do your own research. May I suggest you begin by referring to:
https://en.wiki/Critical_race_theory#Tenets
There’s a lot to read at this site, but as a lawyer I would expect you to be capable of and use to plowing through such material, the nearly 100 references cited, and additional reading recommendations. Let me know when you have finished your own research and I’ll be happy to have an educated debate with you on the history and merits of CRT. Heck, since I drive right by your neck of the woods several times a year, maybe you, me and the Supervising Deputy of the Los Angeles Sheriffs Department can get together over a beer and share our collective knowledge on the subject. While I don’t know the Supervising Deputy personally, I do include in my circle of friends someone who used to oversee the Los Angeles Swat Department. Maybe my friend can help facilitate the get together.
As for explaining to you the LBGTQ amalgam (? a noun meaning mixture or blend), I’m afraid you’re going to have to be more specific about what it is you don’t understand. While I am not a member of the LBGTQ community, I am very close to many friends, family members, ex coworkers, and others who are and I can personally attest to witnessing numerous instances of verbal abuse and harassment, and even physical harassment, for simply wanting to be accepted for who they are. I will leave it to others on this forum who might have their own such experiences to give you details which I am certain will soften even your hard heart on this subject.
On second thought, I will give you one example that deeply effected by belief of how people who are considered “different” can be abused. I know a person who I met on the very day he/she was born, and to whom I was very close to his/her entire life, right up to today. Born with male genitalia, this person lived what anyone who took the time to know him was a normal prepubescent heterosexual life. Beginning in middle school and continuing all through high school a darkness came over this person. He withdrew into himself, began dressing in all black, soon began cutting himself, and even attempted suicide on more than one occasion. During therapy it came out he believed he was living in the wrong body and was really a female and that his classmates had picked up on this and were bullying him to a degree he was no longer willing or capable to accept. When his parents, who are very religious, learned of his beliefs they went into denial and said it was only a phase and he would grow out of it. But try as they might, no amount of praying seemed to make a difference. Finally, after graduating from high school and attending one year of community college near home, he/she saved up enough money to move to a four-year college out of the area.
As it so happened, my wife and I were going to be driving home from a short trip and agreed to stop by his new school and give him/her a free lift home for the Thanksgiving weekend. We planned to meet him/her at a local restaurant on the Wednesday before driving home for the holiday and the moment we saw him/her we knew something was different. She immediately told us she was living in a special dorm on campus that accepted only students like her that were either unsure of their sexuality or were certain they were a member of the LBGTQ community. She had changed her name to one of a female gender, began dressing as a female, and was sharing a room with a transgender male. The only way I can accurately describe my friend is that for the first time in nearly a decade, she was happy.
Unfortunately, nothing really changed at home. It seemed to me her parents would have preferred having a dead son than a happy, thriving daughter. Over the last ten years since coming out, my wife and I have stayed close to her and even have help her navigate the myriad of rules and regulation needed to get a legal name change, establish credit after changing sexuality, and even what steps need to be taken before being allowed to have sexual reassignment surgery. I have seen very graphic photos of what a person transitioning from male to female genitalia must go through and believe me when I say nobody in their right mind would subject themselves to the procedure unless they were totally convince it was the right thing to do.
When I read some of the truly ignorant comments made on this forum about people who identify as LBGTQ, it causes me to want to give the writer a good slap down. Until you have walked in someone else’s shoes you have no right to try and force your personal belief on others. Unless of course you are a “True Republican”, then evidently all bets are off and anything goes.
It’s getting late and I have some preparation to do prior to taking a long weekend trip to N. AZ, so I’ll save my replies to the rest of your post 11638 for a later date. But rest assured, I will get back to you. I’m especially looking forward to schooling you some more on how the price of gasoline is set and how no American president has, nor can, effect the price at the pump except in a very few and specific ways.
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